Discover Your Purpose in before marriage. And be ready to be a helper and not a competitor or judge of your husband to be.Go To School Or Learn a trade. Don’t wait for a man before you start living. Add value to yourself and leave a godly life.
Don’t run after a man because of his money, cars connection, position, talent, or family background. Marry a man base on his vision, godly character, the conviction of the Holy Spirit and Love. Material things and beauty are temporal.
Develop a healthy eating and cooking habit.Don’t be too fat that single men begin to think you are married. Take the better side, a woman who doesn’t like to cook, will always have something missing no matter how many chefs she could hire. It takes discipline to do that.
Dress well: First Impression counts.Don’t expose any of your private parts or sensitive body spots for men to see otherwise you might only attract a player or bandit but not a responsible man.
Don’t beg or force a man to marry you, no matter how much you love him. It is better for you to take time to influence him to love through kind gestures and food but no sex before marriage. If after two years, he is still not proposing marriage, you need to forget about him. You are too precious don’t cheapen yourself. And don’t try to hook and keep a guy with sex or unwanted pregnancy. Many ladies who do that end up in shame and regrets if God doesn’t come in to transform the man.
Your character and prayer life will determine the health of your marriage. It makes a man want to spend the rest of his life with you. So Work on your character. Beauty is not everything. If it is all you have, you’ll lose your place to someone more beautiful and more matured than you.
Never fail to learn how to cook good food. Men usually love a woman who feed them with good food because one of the easiest way to a man’s heart is through good food.
Never fail to read at least 2 books about marriage and family before your wedding.The marriage you don’t prepare for will confuse you when you get there. Attend marriage seminar and premarital counselling before marriage.
Never fail To Give Your Life to Christ and be active in the faith before Marriage.
A Marriage Without Christ Is Bound To Experience Marital Crisis.
Note: don’t rush into marriage because you got pregnant or because you feel all your friends are getting married.
Get married because you are ready to make the sacrifices involved.